favorite playlist – deep dark indie

Need some hauntingly beautiful melodies to vibe with your melancholic mood? A few of my favorites on the list are: Arsonist’s Lullaby by Hozier | Come Find Me by Emile Hainie, Lykki Li, & Romy | Depraved by Mammals | Don’t Wanna Be Your Girl by Wet | Station by Lapsley | Waiting Game by Banks Continue reading favorite playlist – deep dark indie

accepting pain and the unknown

It happened again this morning. I was thinking about working from a coffee shop today. Sounds easy enough, right? Not when you’re chronically ill, and highly sensitive. You have to consider a lot of things that other people don’t. Like, I typically like coffee shop environments. They’re made to be comfortable, and workable. The ambiance is something I can work with for a while. I … Continue reading accepting pain and the unknown

comfort and color for dreary days

Cold and dreary days can seriously get you down. Especially where I live, the weather gets dreary for about half of the year.  Creating a comfortable environment is super important for highly sensitive people. With winter’s arrival, you might need to kick up the color in your space to help energize and balance your environment. I came across an easy way to add color and comfort … Continue reading comfort and color for dreary days

honoring the things that suck

Life can be unbelievably painful and ridiculous. And a lot of times, because people feel bad about what you’re going through, they don’t want to acknowledge it. It makes them uncomfortable to see you suffer. While it’s good that people don’t want you to suffer, it doesn’t mean that you won’t. It doesn’t mean that they can slap a platitude onto it and make it … Continue reading honoring the things that suck

a tarot wish list

Doing this tarot challenge has had me looking at the different decks people use. I’d always been interested in the tarot, but never really connected with the first deck I got. When I saw the Wild Unknown deck, I loved it’s energy immediately. This is the one I use every day, and I love it. (So much that I have it for sale from my shop) … Continue reading a tarot wish list

pieces of things.

So I’d been doing well with posts, and I’m also doing that IG tarot challenge. I mean, if I’m going to kick it, why not kick it hard? Because sometimes, you get kicked hard… and you can’t come up with enough thoughts to finish a post, and I haven’t been writing enough to have any in stock. I’ve got lots of thoughts that feel important, … Continue reading pieces of things.

NURTURING

Today is day 12 of the #modernmysticchallenge, and the prompt is NURTURING. I’ve been drawing one card every day so far, but I wanted more insight on today’s concept. I focused on asking three things regarding nurturing: 1- What do I need to nurture within myself? 4 of swords 2- What needs nurtured regarding the situation? 10 of swords (reversed) 3 – What do I … Continue reading NURTURING

INFP-ing

Okay, so I KNOW that I’m sensitive and emotional processing is essential to my well being, and understanding in life. I know that empathy is important to me, and that I’m having a difficult time right now. In trying to understand how to approach the situation, I was reading some stuff about personality types and came across this article… http://www.personalityhacker.com/infp-vs-infj/ It discusses how INFP’s use the … Continue reading INFP-ing

color & emotion

Surrounding yourself with things that make you feel comfortable can be really important to highly sensitive people (HSPs). Environments such as home and work, where you spend a lot of time, should be supportive to maintaining your balance. HSPs are often affected by lighting, sounds, smells, colors, etc. in ways that most people aren’t. My transitional situation at home has been stressing me out. We’re … Continue reading color & emotion

energy & music

Without getting into it, I had a very draining experience last night. This morning my eyes were puffy from crying, my head ached, my body was tight and painful – fibromyalgia is always a phenomenal addition to any of life’s tribulations, if the experience itself wasn’t enough to make one physically ill, don’t worry, fibromyalgia will take care of that… I felt heavy, yet thin, … Continue reading energy & music